“We are getting crazy travel bug,” my friend Lonnie wrote me this week. “Don’t know when but we are talking. Would love to pick your brain.” My emails and Zoom calls are humming with fresh possibilities now that the vaccines are making many Americans feel, as my pal Pete puts it, “completely bullet proof.” Or at least sufficiently Covid-proof to consider a future that includes a destination further away than the local supermarket.
For the last year Rich and I have avoided even discussing travel. Bringing it up seemed as foolish as someone in a WWII foxhole saying, “When all this is over, I’m going to buy a farm.” Way to jinx yourself! But a few weeks ago, when I’d had my first shot and Rich his second, an idea popped into my head.
“When it is safe to travel again,” I said, “what would you think about visiting the happiest places on earth?”
“No, seriously. I’ve spent the last year writing about surviving disasters, packing for catastrophes, and stocking the Apocalypse Chow Food Locker. You’ve spent months studying the science of happiness. Wouldn’t it be fun to visit lighthearted places — you know, the countries that always top the World Happiness Index? See what they’re like?”
Rich got that I-think-we’re-on-to-something gleam in his eye and said, “Where’s the map of Europe?” In moments we had the map spread across the table and the World Happiness Index rankings onscreen.
The World’s Happiest Countries
“Finland, Denmark, Switzerland, Iceland, Norway, and the Netherlands,” Rich read. “So a summer trip then.”
“Definitely.” I recalled our visit to Helsinki in July of 2016; in every photo I’m wearing at least two layers plus a jacket. And, come to think of it, smiling.
They say it was the King of Bhutan and his famous slogan, "Our gross national product is happiness," that inspired the UN to start publishing the World Happiness Index in 2012. The rankings alerted the world to the peculiar fact that the Scandinavian lands — despite being as cold, bleak, and remote as Winterfell in Game of Thrones, known for high suicides and taxes — consistently took the prize for wellbeing and contentment.
“Clearly, when it comes to the level of average life evaluations, the Nordic states are doing something right,” states the latest report, released in March of 2020. “But Nordic exceptionalism isn’t confined to citizen’s happiness. No matter whether we look at the state of democracy and political rights, lack of corruption, trust between citizens, felt safety, social cohesion, gender equality, equal distribution of incomes, Human Development Index, or many other global comparisons, one tends to find the Nordic countries in the global top spots.” So their happiness ranking reflects a society based on fairness, stability, and trust. What must that be like?
“80% of Danish citizens trust each other,” says Malene Rydahl, author of Happy as a Danes. “In most countries it’s around 5% in the worst cases, and the average in Euope is 25%. In Denmark, it gets summed up in one image: babies sleeping outside a restaurant. Now, you would say, ‘Nobody’s watching the babies.’ Well, I would say, ‘Everyone is.’”
The video Why Finland and Denmark Are Happier Than The U.S. explains some reasons why those two countries trade off the top spot on the Happiness Index every year. Their citizens enjoy free education and health care, gender and income equality, and work-life balance that’s taken so seriously everyone has reasonable schedules, five-week paid vacations, and the right to “stress leave” if the job becomes overwhelming.
So why all the suicides? “The higher the level of life satisfaction, actually also the slightly higher the level of suicide rates,” says Meik Wiking, CEO of the Happiness Research Institute, a quality-of-life think tank in Copenhagen. “And the theory here is that it might be more difficult to be unhappy in an otherwise happy society. Because it creates a stronger contrast to how you are feeling if you are surrounded by very happy people.” Since 1980 those rates have plummeted by about 75% and are now similar to those throughout Europe and the US. “But still it’s not zero. So we still need to reduce that even further.”
Wiking is doing his bit to spread Nordic happiness, not only in his own country, but around the world via The Little Book of Hygge: Danish Secrets to Happy Living.
Hygge, pronounced roughly like HUE-guh, comes from the Norwegian word for wellbeing and defines that delightful cocoon of tranquil contentment that comes from being comfy, cozy and safe, usually in the company of congenial companions. “Hygge,” Wiking explains, “has been called everything from ‘the art of creating intimacy,’ ‘coziness of the soul,’ and ‘the absence of annoyance,’ to ‘taking pleasure from the presence of soothing things,’ ‘cozy togetherness,’ and my personal favorite, ‘cocoa by candlelight.’”
As you can imagine, I am in love with this concept. In these challenging times, clearly we need all the hygge we can get. In fact, it wouldn’t be a bad idea for us all to become hyggespreders, people who spread hygge around our homes and communities. Hygge is associated with soft lighting, relaxed clothes, cozy furniture, and familiar, sweet, comforting foods. Ideally it involves lots of candles, the crackle of logs in a hearth, and the smell of chocolate chip cookies baking.
Obviously, that’s a shoot for; I have no log-burning fireplace, can’t bake chocolate chip cookies every night, and rarely light candles as I usually have to get out of bed at least once to reassure myself I remembered to blow them all out. But I have spent a fair amount of time making our cottage cozy.
Right now Rich and I are still hunkering down in the comfy safety of our California cottage. I don’t know when it will make sense to hit the road again, but in preparation for that joyous day, we’re busy researching our Happiness Tour. There are a few tiny obstacles. The pandemic is far from over, especially in Europe. Our Spanish residency cards have expired, so we can’t return to Spain until it reopens to American tourists. And to move freely around Europe for months on our Happiness Tour, we will need to renew those residency cards — a daunting task at the best of times, now complicated by massive backlogs due to the pandemic and Brexit.
With luck, we’ll eventually get all that sorted and take off on a long railway journey from Spain (28th in happiness ranking) through France (23rd) and ultimately to the Nordic countries. There I hope to experience hygge in its native habitat, learning first-hand what it’s like to nestle in a warm, cozy, firelit place wearing thick socks and a wooly sweater, savoring a steaming cup of cocoa by candlelight, even if it is the middle of July.
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3/10/2021 08:41:30 pm
Hi Karen--Yes! travel suddenly seems possible--at least sometime within a foreseeable future! Maybe the enjoyments of anticipation are all a part of hygge.
3/11/2021 02:42:32 am
Tobey, I do think that anticipation is part of hygge — dreaming of far away adventures when you are snuggled in a quilt on your sofa by the fire. They say hygge has a lot to do with its cozy contrast to the rest of life, with all its bustle and stresses. As for the chairs, yes, to me each one has so much personality, and often a long history that I know nothing about. Right now, when home and hygge are so essential, I am immensely grateful to all the comfy chairs in my life.
3/11/2021 02:49:45 am
Lynn, I have to agree that warm weather is an essential ingredient to my overall happiness. That's part of why I'm so fascinated by people who live in a place with spectacularly undesirable weather and still manage to carve out good lives. That's what makes it so interesting to wander around the world.
3/11/2021 05:22:00 am
Happiness is in the eye/mind of the beholder!! All the thoughts that are whizzing through my brain now are like the tiniest microchip on its way to the moon station with China and Russia. Not too many countries take those of us who have had 2 vaccines yet. So in a week, we are going to the Channel Islands or Island of Santa Cruz. Then we will go to LA and be with family for the weekend. Lots of outdoor hangouts. We are planning or maybe dreaming. I have TAP vouchers that are good for another year. Gracias mi amiga.
3/11/2021 04:38:53 pm
You are so wise, Kitty, to start closer to home and reconnect with people you love. Like you, I'm looking forward to in-person visits with family and friends I've only seen on Zoom for a very long time. Whenever I think about getting my second vaccine (just a week away!!) and the freedom it brings, I feel so very grateful to everyone whose hard work made it possible.
3/11/2021 06:02:40 am
You might like reading My Year of Living Danishly by Helen Russell. I enjoyed it. Thanks for your blog. Because of you, when in Seville February 2020, I went to a book group by expats. They were reading one of my favorite books-Milkman. I
3/11/2021 04:46:43 pm
Julia, thanks for the tip about Helen Russell's book. I've just downloaded it and it looks absolutely delightful. I'm so inspired by what I'm reading about the Nordic countries, and it will be great fun to discover this outsider's viewpoint of the culture. As for your own travel plans, I can only imagine how wonderful it will be for you to see your mother again, and someday, with any luck at all, to take bike trips in foreign lands. And I'm delighted you connected with the Seville book club; it's one of the best ways to get to know people. Here's to brighter days ahead, more good reads, and wider adventures.
3/13/2021 01:36:45 am
Those words, 'residency permits expired' gave me cold chills. Best of luck in getting them renewed. We have similar backlogs due to Covid and coupled with Brexit and our British friends and neighbors getting what they call the 'biometric card' AKA residency cards as we know them.
3/13/2021 04:18:19 pm
You're so right, Jackie, that it's a chilling feeling to be without residency cards. By now, Spain technically considers us "permanent residents" but the cards demonstrating this have to be renewed every five years. An immigration lawyer told me we will be able to renew the card, but it will take time and lots of boring paperwork. So there's that to look forward to! But I know from past experience that it eventually gets done and it is well worth the effort.
3/14/2021 03:45:28 pm
Enjoyed this post, Karen. Like “hygee” or “hueguh”. Sounds good to me too, esp. hot cocoa by moonlight, even as romantic as wine.
3/14/2021 09:10:53 pm
The question of what country, or region, or city is happiest has a lot of answers. Whether the Netherlands top the list or "only" rank in the top six or ten, it is certainly a place where people have carved out good lives in a harsh climate. The Danes and Finns seem to think the contrast between the icy outside and cozy inside adds considerably to the hygge effect. All that being said, I totally agree that visiting Nordic countries and Russia would be a summer activity for me! Like you, Faye, I hate hauling around heavy coats, snow boots, hats, and gloves. I wish you the best of luck with your travels. You'll know when the time is right and no doubt will enjoy being on the road even more, thanks to the long months of waiting.
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